How to Keep Household Harmony

Maintaining harmony in the household is easy to say but hard to do. Marriage does not come with a guarantee of happiness. But if you and your husband have 13 simple things, a commitment must be sweet.

Author of Building a Love that Lasts: The Seven Surprising Secrets of Successful Marriage, Dr. Charles D. Schmitz and Dr. Elizabeth A. Schmitz has conducted numerous studies in various parts of the world about the wedding. In the book, these wedding experts reveal the characteristics of marriage that has a great opportunity to undergo a commitment to be happy. Check with your partner if you both have to meet the criteria?

1. Recently married until you are 25 years or more. According to research, couples who marry after age 25 have a chance to last longer in the marriage. Factors of experience and maturity gained with age is believed to make a happy marriage.
2. Research conducted by Jeffrey Dew at Utah State University in mid-2009 revealed that the main reason for divorce happens is because of money. According to Dew, couples fight over money once a week had a 30 percent chance of divorce than those who fought with the same topic over once a month. Therefore, having a steady job and stable income before deciding to marry is very important.
3. Speaking of children, it is advisable to have a child when it is ready physically and spiritually, mutual understanding, and ready to be a responsible parent to educate baby. Wait for a year after marriage it is enough to prepare themselves. Remember, even though the child is a source of happiness, but if you're both not ready, you will be stressed and the kids are going to be a victim.
4. The couple who run the religious values ​​tend to be less likely to divorce. Because the spiritual beliefs will guide them to create an intact marriage.
5. Education apparently affect the risk of divorce. In his book, Charles and Elizabeth reveals that educated couples who will lead the couple to better understand each other, complement each other, and more tolerant of each other. Another interesting fact is also presented two writers. It turned out that educated women tend to marry men less educated than he. "The level of happiness is greater," said Charles.
6. Make sure that your partner is your best friend. Because love is not enough to make the marriage work. Remember, you will spend a lifetime with him, you know! If he was your friend, then every day is it you will not get bored with him.
7. No matter you are so perfect marriage, each spouse must have been a fight. If this moment happens, we have to fight without fighting muscle and hurt each other. The wrong thing anyway if you choose to bury all resentment and take her to bed. Because this is one of the most powerful trigger to the gate of divorce.
8. When you are married, does not mean you have to release the identity of, you know. If you are the person who likes to laugh out loud or outspoken person, stay that way. Loss of identity just because you are married it will make the wedding feel empty.
9. Loyalty is the key to a happy marriage. So remember, never betray the oath of allegiance that you both speak at the wedding day. Even just send a message "naughty" on instant messenger with the aim of a joke was not done.
10. Although living together, you both must have their own time. Charles and Elizabeth constantly reminded how important this is. Moreover, based on research over the past thirty years, they found that every human being is likely to have needs to be himself from time to time. If you both do this, believe the marriage will bear fruit sweet.
11. "Talk about anything and talk about everything with your partner," Elizabeth writes in her book. Get used to this activity will make the communication becomes more open and more honest. If you are quiet, this action is proper exercise.
12. Admiration on Her should not stop after you get married. It is precisely this feeling must be constantly nurtured, as well as with respect. The staying of a marriage usually stems from these two attitudes. Where you both endlessly shows good faith on the couple. Most importantly, do it selflessly. Thank you, as the couple prepare breakfast, kissed his forehead when they want to work, insert the words, "Please," when asking a partner to do something are a few simple examples that can be done starting today.
13. A happy marriage begins with the "planting" a simple act that fostered the love and affection. As the seasons change, it may be "plant" it will shrink or dry up, but true love will make it stronger. That means you both have to work hard and start with simple things. Have you two doing?