As parents, we certainly want to educate children properly so that future day be devoted to the parents and the state. However, without being aware that there are some mistakes that we do in educating children. Here are some mistakes that you might not realize going in educating your child:
- Less Oversight According to Professor Robert Billingham, Human Development and Family Studies - University of Indiana, "Children are too many associate with artificial environment outside the family, and it is a tragedy that should be considered by parents". Well now you know, how to work around this, for example if your child is in day care or school, try to visit him regularly and unplanned. If your supervision is reduced, the solution look for another daycare. Do not let your child roam alone. Your child needs attention.
- Listening to fail According to psychologist Charles Fay, Ph.D. "Many parents are too tired to pay attention - children tend to ignore what they have to say", for example Aisha came home with an inert eye, generally the elderly and then immediately respond to it in excess, to guess the boy hit the ball, or a fight with his friend. In fact, parents do not know what happened to the children themselves who tell it.
- Rarely meet face According to Billingham, parents should let kids make mistakes, let the child learn from mistakes so as not to repeat the same mistakes. Help your child to solve their own problems, but do not take advantage of your interest.
- Too Excessive According to Judy Haire, "many parents spend 100 miles per hour to dry hair, from 1 hour to spend with their children". Children need time alone to feel the boredom, because it will spur creativity led to growing children.
- In front of Children fight According to psychiatrist Sara B. Miller, Ph.D., of the most powerful destructive behavior is "fighting" in front of children. When parents fight in front of their children, especially boys, then the result is an adult male candidate who is not sensitive can not be associated with healthy women. Parents should warm the discussions between them, without the children around them. Naturally, if the parents disagree, but try without anger. Do not create feelings of insecurity and fear in children.
- Not Consistent Children need to feel that their parents play. Do not let them beg and whine to be a powerful weapon to get what they want. Parents must be assertive and authoritative in front of children.
- Ignoring Conscience By Lisa Balch, a mother of two children, "just do it according to your heart and let it flow without losing sight of the surrounding sounds too debilitating. I learned a lot that parents should have a keen sense of something ".
- Watching Too Much TV According to Neilsen Media Research, American children aged 2-11 years watch three hours and 22 minutes a day TV broadcasts. Watching television will make children lazy to learn. Parents tend to let children linger in front of the TV rather than disrupt the activities of the elderly. Parents are very unlikely be able to filter the entry of negative advertising that does not educate.
- Measured with everything Matter According to Louis Hodgson, mother of 4 kids and grandmother of 6 grandchildren, "the child now has a lot of objects to be collected". It is not wrong spoil the child with toys and luxury holiday. But that should realize is that your child requires quality time with their parents. They tend to want to be heard than be given something, and silence.
- Weight Be Next Some parents support the child and sometimes more biased disfigure the child while the child in front of their partners. They will disappear and the perception of a pattern tends to be biased. Spend time with children at least 10 minutes interrupted your busy life. And make sure the child knows the time with parents is time that can not be interrupted.
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